Many men struggle each day watching the love of their life flock around with other guys knowing that you are the person that really does love her. Jealousy, hatred, and a feeling of loss might all come to life during this time. But what you need to do is win that person's heart.
Steps
1. Courage Most girls like guys with confidence. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. (Example: "Hi, waiting for a friend?") If you didn't get it the first time, try and try again.
2. Prove that you really love her and are not simply crushing or lusting for her. Ask her about herself, talk to her, don't just move in for the kiss.
3. Care for Her: Ask her about her day. It's a simple way to show her that you are interested in what she does. When she starts to talk, you must give her your full attention. Look her in the eye and don't check annyone else out! And most importent of all, don't interupt!
4. Send mixed signals. Yeah, it's a bit childish but necessary. One day call her and compliment her, then don't call or speak to her for two days. She'll wonder why you haven't called, which means you'll be on her mind. Never go so far as to compliment her one day and make fun of her the next. Subtlety is key.
5. Don't tell girls - for that matter, anyone at all - they have a flaw unless you are OBVIOUSLY poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
6. Show respect to other girls too. When she will realize that other girls take interest in you then she will automatically get to the point where you want her to be.
7. Make sure to be good friends with her friends. If her friends like you, chances are she will.
Tips
· Be a man: walk, talk and act with confidence. Be a leader. Offer her the security you can provide.
· Don't be petty: Don't complain about trivial things.
· Be exciting: always talk with vigor and energy, no matter what it is.
· Be playful: tease her a little, and when she teases you come right back at her with something funny. It's like two puppies wrestling. Very fun.
· Take pride: Dress well and be clean. Don't litter.
· Don't interrupt. Show a respect for everything and everyone. Be a good guy, understanding.
· Lastly and most importantly: Respect her above all else. She is special and unique. Don't stand for even your closest friend insulting her whether right or wrong. After all, you love her, don't you? Good luck.
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§ Also***, her left side is more emotional than her right, so flirt with her while standing on her left side.
· You should try to make her laugh... girls love a funny guy (trust me i am one)!!
Warnings
· Don't push it. If she says no, accept that.
· Do not cheat on her. You may never win her heart back and you could emotionally scar her and prevent her from wanting to be in a relationship again.
· Understand that people change. She might be all that now, but later you may not be interested.
· DO NOT try and share the same interests as the girl all the time. Sometimes girls like men who are different to them. This is why it is ALWAYS important to be yourself!
· Never put all your eggs in one basket, unless ready for a devoted marriage or prolonged relationship. Understand you may get burned.
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