How to Talk to Your Crush Without Being Crushed

Have a crush, but wimp out every time you want to say something to them? You're probably afraid of rejection or that you'll do something stupid. While your chances may be small, they will be zero if you don't do anything.
Steps
1. The only way to over come your nervousness is from with in. Before blabbering, think about what you want to say. Take your time but don't take too long. Find a comfortable moment to say. Remember take your time, say what you have to say, don't scream. (Summary: Be comfortable to overcome this obstacle.) *For how to win a girl's heart click here
2. Practice in the mirror. You'll want to make sure you know what you're going to say.
3. Approach your crush when he or she is alone, in a casual situation.
4. Introduce yourself and tell them a little about yourself. The important thing is to start a conversation.
5. Ask your crush about himself or herself. Try some simple questions: "What teachers do you have?" "Where do you like to hang out?" "What music do you listen to?" But, don't make it an interrogation. Just talk to them like you would talk to anyone else.
6. If you're not as nervous as some people, ask this person if they would like to hang out with you sometime, to get coffee, or go to a movie; maybe even go to dinner for something to eat.
Tips
· If your crush tries to run before class ends, take this as a hint that you need to quit; that she's/he's not interested.
· If she/he doesn't seem to want to talk to you, she/he either doesn't like you or is shy around you. Be sure which one it is before continuing.
· Practice what you're going to say or you will panic, which you shouldn't do.
· After you know what your crush likes, ask them to go with you to a place she or he would really like (such as a concert featuring his or her favorite singer).
· Don't think the worst; always think the best.
· If your conversation doesn't go as planned, don't give up, try again (that's if he/she responded at least once or twice).
· Find something that you both are interested in before you start to talk to him/her.
· Don't change for them. If you tell them you hate math and they love math, continue to hate math. People like someone who is to his or her self. Remember no one wants to date themselves. Don't mirror their likes and dislikes because it won't work.

Warnings
· Don't freak out.
· If he/she doesn't seem to get used to you, then leave him/her alone for one day, and on the next day, come up to him/her again and change the topic.
· Your crush may not feel the same way about you. In that case, you have to move on. They may change their mind later, but you have to live your life.
· If your ex wants to stay friends, and you don't, tell him/her. Don't fake being friends just for his/her sake.
· Don't get your friends to do it for you. Do it yourself.
· Don't ever talk to him/her because sometimes they don't know who you are and you want to be noticed
· Make sure that when you talk your voice isn't shaky and that you feel perfectly calm.

Things You'll Need
· Confidence
· Courage
· Your personality
· Yourself