How to Talk to a Girl You Like for the First Time

Here is a article on how to treat a girl right! You'll have her in your arms before you know it.
Steps
1. It's all about confidence! Maintain the attitude that she is lucky that you like her and if she doesn't see that, there are plenty of girls who will. If you are not that confident or too shy, you should work on this dilemma.
2. Compliment her:tell her she has a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes, but do not say something that is not true.
3. Girls like it when boys try to defend them when someone makes fun of them or threatens them.
4. In most cases, if you pick on her and pretend you hate her, then she will never like you. She'll think that you do not like her, so she won't like you.
5. Girls feel at home when you talk to them honestly and openly so try doing that.
6. NEVER say to a girl that she is hot, it might make her very uncomfortable; say she is pretty or beautiful instead.
7. Give her your phone number when you know each other well enough.
8. If she asks if she looks bad or stupid, say no, NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK.

Tips
· A note about affection: it's good to start small, a touch on her lower spine will make her warm towards you, and quietly going up behind her to cuddle is less freaky than the full on front hug and she can easily walk away if shes uncomfortable:)
· Remember this: the best thing to do is tell her directly. She will think you are brave for admitting it.
· Give her a compliment - girls don't like too many compliments, it starts to freak them out. A guy will become the total opposite of a crush.
· Say "Hi" in the hallway if you happen to walk by her. This will tell you whether or not she wants to say hi by her facial expression.
· If she looks like she would say hi back, then go for it. But if she doesn't, try another time.
· Be friendly, but do not crowd her.
· When you smile at a girl it makes her feel great.
· After making friendly conversation with her, try holding her hand or maybe hugging her. You don't want to go too fast, though. Make sure you only go as far as she wants to.
· If you want to [Be a Good Boyfriend] then help out with things, bags for example and things that she may find heavy.
· Things that girls love
o To talk: let her tell your stories. When she does DON'T TRY TO BEAT IT. If you have a similar story share it, but do not get competitive.
o To be important: make things about her, and keep talking about what SHE WANTS.
o To be protected: But be careful with this, because IT IS NOT YOUR JOB. Don't go overboard and act as if she is yours, she is a person and wishes to be treated like one, not like meat. Let her know that you care without calling in the Secret Service. Be careful, more independent girls might resent this.
· If you get scared take a deep breath and remember why you are doing this.

Warnings
· If the girl doesn't like you and SHE says it, don't keep pressuring her, you'll look like a stalker.
· Also remember that EVERY girl is different - therefore, there is no specific set of steps to magically get your object of affection to like you. The reason she likes you is because she likes you for who you are. So just be yourself; no one likes a pretender.
· When giving a girl compliments, make sure not to over-do it. If you've just told her that her eyes are beautiful, don't immediately compliment her smile.
· IMPORTANT-Don't complement her unless you are sincere. She'll see right through you. Point out something that makes her special and unique.
· It will be difficult to maintain this with a girl who has a boyfriend.
· DON'T LOOK AT HER BREASTS! She might feel sexually harassed, or she'll think that that's the only thing you like her for.
o One big thing about compliments. Try and compliment something that you know she worked hard on, not something like "I like your eyes". Compliment her ensemble, how she did her hair, or how radiant she looks that night.***