When dealing with a crush, it's important you make sure that the girl in question can't find out about it (unless you think she feels the same way about you).
Steps
1. Don't give her any signs that you are desperately in love, but try to get to know her or even be friends. She won't like or date you if she doesn't know you.
2. If you're interested in getting a date with this girl, stay calm. Don't make a fool of yourself.
3. Get help from a friend that you believe is the most trustworthy; tell him your problem and pay attention to any advice he gives you. Since he's not in love, he's probably more clear-headed than you.
4. Act cool and collected around her. Try to pay attention to your appearance and look nice, but don't overdo it. Just be yourself.
5. Stay clean. You don't want her to think you're a slob. Make sure you smell good - no expensive cologne needed, just don't reek. Whatever you do, don't wear a ton of anything scented -especially stuff like AXE. Girls get sick of this. Believe me. The commercials about girls attacking you are wrong.
6. Before you try to talk to her, have a mental outline of what you're going to say. Know your topic, what you want to say about it, and what you want to ask her about it. Yes, you have to ask her questions, otherwise you are simply talking at her and you look dumb.
7. When dealing with a girl that has had a recent break-up, let her know that she has your support and that she can talk to you, but don't go overboard. You have to make sure that you don't sound like you are going to force her to cry on your shoulder.
8. Be confident! Girls like a guy that's confident. Be yourself no matter how hard it may seem. Sit next to her when you can! Most girls will like that...
Tips
· Keep cool; drink some water. Try to see the bigger picture and stop obsessing.
· Don't have a watery mouth. Nobody likes people spitting at them. That is a major turn off!
· Try to sound like you have emotions too, but again, don't go overboard. When she shuts her finger in her locker, instead of saying "Hmph..." or something like "Oh my gosh, are you okay?! Ambulance, someone call 911! she might have broken her finger! (bursts into tears)" Just ask if she's okay, sounding worried, but not panicked.
· Bring some peppermints around with you. She's not going to want to talk to you if your breath smells like the bad end of a donkey!
· Know what she likes. Don't dress in ripped-up clothing if she likes things to be neat. However, you still need to be yourself, and remember, the clothes DON'T make the man, but they can help.
Warnings
· Be prepared to be called names. Most people will find out about this. Don't sweat it, and don't say, "At least I can get a girl; you still have troubles getting a guy/girl!"
· Do not wear cheap sprays like AXE or TAG. Most girls can't stand them! You should try to find out if your crush likes that scent. If she does like it and try wearing it. You really can't go wrong.
Things You'll Need
· A crush
· Good, comfortable clothing
· Good Hygiene
· The ability to be yourself
· Confidence
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